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Just read a meme on Facebook:

Love your spouse more than you love your career, hobbies, and money. That stuff can't love you back.

It is too damn bad my husband's not smarter than a meme. He canceled my trip to the Panama Canal on Disney Cruise Lines because he "was afraid he'd never get another chance to go, again". Direct quote. Furthermore, he actually told me, in conversational tones, that he "wasn't sorry he did it." 10/2012

He abandoned me in our home, when I was ill, on top of being rendered a helpless quadriplegic by ALS. -12/2012

He refused to ask for the day off so he could drive me to Microsoft to attend a major motion picture "sneak peek" of  "Gleason: Diary of a Saint". -4/2016


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