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Spending a Day In Communication

I spend my days in solitary trivial pursuits and in slumber. Listening to audiobooks, contributing to websites like patientslikeme and goodreads, blogging, reading the Daily Reflection on the Alcoholics Anonymous website. I have a Word of the Day delivered to my email from Dictionary.Com. Despite my impending demise, I'm intensely interested in learning.

Classics, mystery, paranormal romance, are my preferred genres. But I've ended up reading non-fiction, biographies, true crime, and climbing books. On Good Reads, I document the books I've read, rating and reviewing them, and sharing these on Facebook.

Oh yeah!  I forgot. I spend time on Facebook, communicating with family and friends and subscribing to pages centered around PALS communicating with PALS. This ended up being one of my main means of communication.

On Patients Like Me, I document my ALS progression, my moods, and communicate with other persons with ALS (PALS) from all over the world. Note: ALS is also known as Motor Neuron Disease (MND).

Blogging gets my thoughts, feelings, and memories out of my head and onto "paper". It's also been useful communicating with caregivers, friends, and family.

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